Influence, sourness

The famous Infl people book says when faced with the choice of punishing or rewarding people, you should do the latter. Otherwise you have lower chances of accomplishing your goal and you may leave people to be sour against you.

Congratulating someone can be funny when taken out of the context I am referring to.

leaves ppl sour. Reward helps.

Health INS companies want punish? No just get money , riskier smoker clients? But this ends up being penalizing

Being "a" crazy interesting

Another connection I am thinking of with How to Win friends and influence and the "be a random interesting thingsmabob" to meet lots of friends in the world.

Carnegie says to be like a dog: show lots of love. That's what the fun value outpouring person does too.